Some
applause for great dads
Gone are the days of dad working all
day to come home to a pipe, slippers, and the evening paper while the
kids sit waiting for dinner. This generation of fathers and step
fathers are “all in” when it comes to child-raising. There’s
more to a dad these days than little league coach. Men who play an
active role in their children’s lives deserve a little recognition.
Whether they are baby-wearing or
carpooling, more dads are helping care for families “in the home,”
some even full time. According to the US Census Bureau there were
93,000 stay-at-home-dads in the United States in 2000. Fast forward
to 2012 and they reported 189,000 stay-at-home dads and it’s not
only moms at “Mommy and Me” anymore!
Dads who work in the home chase kids,
hold babies, sing lullabies, clean messes, play taxi driver, and
juggle after school schedules. They get stressed out, touched out,
and overwhelmed. These guys need “me time,” too. What does he do
for down time? Video games, hunting, fishing, workout, massage?
Stay-at-home-dads aren’t the only
awesome ones, though. Many working fathers don’t take a break when
they arrive home but dive right in to home life. Cooking, cleaning,
and playing with the kids is more than “pitching in,” it’s a
part of life with a family. More and more dads share in the sometimes
exciting, sometimes mundane activities called life.
Weekend dads are important, too.
Sometimes circumstances arise in which a family lives apart. Trying
to pack a week’s worth of time into a weekend can’t be easy.
Going from a full house to an empty nest every other week can have an
emotional effect, especially if they live miles away.
What can you do for the special man in
your life who shares your home, your children, and your life? You
could find tickets to his favorite team’s game! Maybe there is a
concert coming up he’d like to go to. Send him on a
fishing/boating/hunting trip. Slip a massage gift certificate into
the stack of homemade cards from the kids. Heck, make him a card yourself! Cutting and painting
construction paper sounds fun and he’ll know you’re “thank you”
is coming from the heart!
Melrose Muscle Therapy is also hosting a Dad's Day contest and there is only a week left to enter. Let us know who you know that is the Best Dad and have a chance to win some great prizes.
